Session Review: Wet, Messy, Silly & Scary!

*note* This is a brief review written by a new play partner I had the pleasure to session with last week. For context, our session lasted five hours and involved diapered clown domination, WAM/sploshing and heavy humiliation and degradation. I enjoy clown play immensely and was so excited to have found someone with complimentary interests in Philadelphia. clown degradation Philadelphia Dominatrix.

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A Dominant woman wear blue, green and purple clown makeup and pigtails.

From Her pixielike demanding attitude to her fun loving decadance coupled with her shaming laughter, my initial meeting with Mistress Mia was above and beyond my expectations. 

 Expectations that were varied as well as high. Mistress Mia spent the time before hand needed to fully explore and understand my motivations and incorporated them quite well into our session, while placing Her own twists and surprises within our session.

As someone who was quite inactive for more then a few years after being active almost 35 years. Meeting Mistress Mia was satisfying as well as an excellent partner for my reentry into the lifestyle.

-piggie, July 2019

Testimonial from session with Chicago slave

I had the chance to session with an incredibly obedient and attentive slave while touring Chicago earlier this month. Interested in learning more about Me and meeting Me in person? You can view My offerings or check Me out on Twitter!

I had the opportunity to both serve and play with Mistress Mia Action in July 2019, and l recommend Her highly. She is open and genuine. I learned that She is a leader and educator in Her local BDSM community and is a welcome addition to my local BDSM community in Chicago.

Before  our scene, Mistress Mia was thorough with pre-negotiation, taking the time to understand my kinks, motivations, and concerns; and then addressing and respecting my limits. Over the course of our talk, i saw that this Woman was fully invested and knowledgeable about the subjects at hand as well as the practices that should make it a enjoyable and safe experience for both of us. But make no mistake, Mistress Mia is a sadist and takes immense pleasure in using pain, degradation, and torture to satisfy Her sadistic urges. But She respects limits and made me feel safe to explore.

As for the scene itself? It was amazing. Mistress Mia initially blindfolded, then later, hooded me and subjected various parts of the front of my body to: electrical shocks, paddles, whips, riding crops, canes, her hands(!) and more. She subjected my mind to dehumanization and humiliation, taking away my humanity. I was just a bitch and she made me announce it loudly where anyone in the room could hear. She let me know I was being laughed at…and well,  more but i started to I drop into a very deep level of subspace.  My perception of the reality outside the leather hood I wore got a little wonky. Soon thereafter I would experience a feeling of utter submission that was quite simply, transcendent…

…There was a point when I felt so eager to do anything, (A…N…Y…THING!), this wickedly wonderful Woman wanted that when She teased me with the fantasy of spending the rest of my life subjected to extreme chastity, total orgasm denial and weekly doses of ritualized torture,  I honestly wanted to give that to Her- give up my own pleasure- just to add to Hers. That I might be open to, or even consider something like this, was such a revelation about myself that I am still processing what it means to me as a submissive and a fetishist as I write this now, almost a week later…. and the scene wasn’t close to over yet.

Still blinded by the hood, Mistress Mia pulled my leash and made me crawl across the room to another piece of equipment.  Then the pain began anew, this time on the back side of my body. Deliberately, methodically…increasingly, She took her time, warming me up to take even more  and more pain… for Her.

I had the feeling that when She felt my body was ready, the beating began in earnest. I suspect She had saved the biggest, meanest toys for now- the long heavy paddles and the long whippy rattan canes. Toys that had scared me in the past. I wasn’t scared anymore. I was in such a place, mentally and physically I would try to do anything for Her.

The beating continued. My cries would get louder and louder till I started to wonder if I could take more….but each time, before I would safeword “yellow”, She would back off give me time to recover and start again. Finally, She… stopped.

 Mistress Mia told me she thought I could take more. She wanted to hurt me more! Knowing that She wanted to continue, I wanted Her to continue. I wanted to take the pain for Her just because I knew it would bring Her pleasure…make no mistake. Every hit and strike hurt A LOT but I still wanted Her to do it all the same. I don’t know if I was in a place at this point where I could even articulate these feelings. It did not matter. my dominant had made a decision and at this point I was far too submissive to consider challenging it. She pushed my experience to a new realm while respecting the limits set by my wife and I. It was amazing.

The scene over, the caring Mistress Mia provided aftercare and allowed me to thank Her as I calmed down. After that I was very happy and contented to be allowed to serve her in some small ways to provide care for her and clean up after the scene.

 The next day Mistress Mia called to check in on me. We talked and she answered any questions I was able to articulate at that time (I was still pretty heavily in a submissive headspace, fyi.) ending the call with us both knowing it was enjoyable and good experience for us both.

If you share Mistress Mia’s interests and have opportunity to play with this surprisingly caring, compassionate, yet ruthless, wickedly sadistic Dominant Woman- do not hesitate!

-a Chicago slave,  July-12-2019

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Below you will find My application as well as information about My booking policies. Whether you are based in Philadelphia, in another city, or abroad, I welcome an application from you. 

If you have not already reviewed My tribute information, FAQ page, and offerings, I encourage you to do so prior to filling out an application. 


 I require a deposit of $50/hour before scheduling incall sessions  This deposit goes toward the final balance of your tribute which is due at the start of our session. Once you are approved to book, I will provide you with instructions to send your deposit. Touring deposits will be reviewed on a case by case basis. 


1.) Fill out the application below. Be as thorough and specific as you are able.  Incomplete or misleading applications will be ignored. All information you provide Me is confidential and necessary for both of our safety.
2.) You will receive an email confirmation
3.) You will receive instructions to send your deposit.
4.) We will schedule a time to speak on the phone and I will send you an in-depth questionnaire to flush out how we will spend our time together.

After you are approved to book a session with Me and I receive your deposit, I will reach out to schedule a time for us to speak on the phone. This phone consultation is included in the cost our your session. 

If your requested session is particularly complex, involves “risker” activities or is 4+ hours, I may ask you to book a phone consultation with Me in addition to your allotted consultation. 
Additional Phone consultations are $50. You may also call My phone consultation line on Niteflirt

Anyone 18-25 years of age must show valid ID to confirm that they are of age.




If you need to reschedule, please let Me know as soon as possible. If you inform Me before 24 hours, you have the opportunity to schedule a new date within a one week period and your deposit can still count toward your session. 
If you wish to cancel our appointment altogether and/or ask to reschedule same day, the deposit non-nonrefundable.
If you cancel same day, I will require payment of the tribute as a courtesy. Please note that continual cancellations, flakiness and disrespect will likely disqualify us from working together.
Simply put, please be courteous and respectful and I will gladly reciprocate! 
If you have a busy schedule and prefer to book “on a whim” I ask that you pre-screen. I do not offer same-day sessions, especially for new play partners.
I look forward to reviewing your application to serve Me.


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By visiting this website, you agree that you are over the age of 18, over the age of consent in your jurisdiction, and do not find adult or BDSM-themed content offensive or objectionable. Mistress Mia Action does not provide escorting, adult companionship or sex of any kind. All models appearing on this website are over the age of 18 and fully consent to all activities undertaken.

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What are you into? 

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Review My specialities and offerings below. This list, while long, is not exhaustive. If you seek something I didn’t mention, email Me to inquire.

Age Play (dark or light)
Age Regression/abdl (nurturing or sadistic)
Body Hair
Body Worship (foot, leg, hands, nails, armpit, belly)
Bondage (leather, shackles, duct tape, saran wrap, light rope)
Breath Play
Caging and Confinement
Chastity and Key Holding (real time and distance)
Clownification/Clown Domination
Corporal Punishment (sensual to severe)
D/s Contracts
Domestic Servitude
Face Slapping
Fetishes (creative & unusual interests welcome!)
Financial Domination
Food Play/Feeding
Gender Exploration
Hair Pulling
High Protocol 

Human Ashtray
Intox (established players only)
Nipple Torture
Mouth Soaping
Pet/Animal Play
Power Exchange
Psychological Play (cruelty, bullying, emotional sadism, mind-fucks, interrogations, etc.)
Public Humiliation
Punishment for Misbehavior
Role Play (mean Mommy, prison/corrections, school settings, LG/daddy (DD/lg with a twist), religious, fantasy, home wrecking, castration fantasy, etc.)
Sharps/Needles (established players only)
Shaving (depilation)
Shoe Worship (heels, boots, sneakers, etc.)
Tease and Denial (with an emphasis on DENIAL)
Tickle Torture (mild to extreme)
Uniform Fetishes
WAM (requires advance notice)

 Psychological Domination

My approach to BDSM and fetish begins with considering  the cerebral aspects of sexuality. I am less motivated by “what” we do together, and moreso by “why” we chose to partake. Whether you have specific erotic rituals that are necessary to incorporate  or you need to be treated in ways that don’t make rational sense to you, I would love to work together to pin point your motivations and then apply that insight to our session seamlessly.  

I am comfortable with exploring many taboo subjects as long as we adequately negotiate and discuss context. I also welcome the opportunity to push you emotionally as well as physically.  I truly believe that the first step to achieving erotic gratification is normalizing and embracing what we are most ashamed of. If you have a question about a particular interest, I encourage you to reach out and ask. 

Chastity & Keyholding

Orgasm denial is an essential part of My everyday sexuality and I hold the keys of several chastity subs currently. Whether you seek a temporary chastity experience within the context of a session, distance Keyholding or a full blown, long-term D/s chastity contract, I want you locked up and denied by Me. 

Tickle Torture

Tickle torture appeals to My silly and lighthearted sensibilities. I love to tickle hard with lots of physical restraint in order to render My tickle victims helpless. I consider the experience and comfort level as well as the desired mood of My tickling victim and then craft the session around our mutual desires.   


I relish having the privilege to work with individuals that crave the sensations of physical and psychological pain, regardless of how we create it.  If you are a masochist, I want to meet you! 

My hard limits include full toilet training, roman showers, sex, racism, touching Me without explicit permission, disrespect of any kind, harming and/or including animals, children and other non-consenting parties.

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Mistress Mia Action

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By visiting this website, you agree that you are over the age of 18, over the age of consent in your jurisdiction, and do not find adult or BDSM-themed content offensive or objectionable. Mistress Mia Action does not provide escorting, adult companionship or sex of any kind. All models appearing on this website are over the age of 18 and fully consent to all activities undertaken.

©Mistress Mia Action 2019. Designed by Black Ash Consulting.